A few of those around me currently are suffering from a heartbreak.. It's just so sudden to end a relationship, you can have many happy memories, many happy moments yet just a simple excuse is enough to end the relationship. The word "Game Over" is just so easy to say out but so difficult to digest.
No wonder they said:
"Love is like wind, you can't see it, but you can feel it."
"Love is like wind, it comes unexpectedly and it leaves in an instant."
They cried when they call me....not one but two.. I might not be a good counselor cause I'm still trying to learn how to maintain a relationship myself. But I guessed what they need now is not a counselor, but someone to listen to their problems.. it might be a simple advise.. to them it really meant alot.. but of course
the main things is.. for them to walk out of the picture themselves and look on the whole picture..
it might sounds easy.. in fact not alot of ppl can do it.. some take days, some take months.. some take years..
crying maybe the best option available.. my advice is cry, cry your hearts out.. at least you will feel better or not at least you can sleep better..
the standard advice I will offer is.. "behind every failed relationship, there's a lesson to be learnt"..
you might not be together but at least you learnt something that you can change, so that the next time you fall in love you will not commit the same mistakes again...
In love there's no right or wrong.. as long you know that you have given your very best.. there is no point blaming yourself..
It takes two hands to clap.. doesn't mean that this is the end..
If it's meant to be yours, it will forever be yours.. Give up slowly day by day.. one day, you will realize that it isn't that difficult :) everyone can do that too..
Be independent.. and of course shout for a shoulder if you ever need one...