Saturday, August 19, 2006'♥
Healing Process....
A lover.. is not only someone who is there to love or care for u...A lover is also ur best fren...ur team mate...
Both of u have the same direction.... knowing what u want to achieve and along the way helping each other to attain ur goals...There are times ,When u meet failures, when u feel like giving up on ur goals.. the other one give u a pat on the shoulder..and tell u everything is ok.. try again next time..ur lover is always ur listener..Both of U motivate each other and give support when necessary...
Often we misinterpret that love comes from emotion...but the truth is...love comes from ur WILL... If you have a strong will, ur love will never die...
Saw this from Kim Sam Soon...
"When ur in love...both of u will produce a hormone..hormones that makes u feel loved and happy...but the hormone will die away..and tats when ur love die too...No matter how loving u are, ur hormone will die away...Some ppl might have little hormone inside them...so their love ended arubtly, but on the average....it lasted two yrs...if more than three yrs.. u are lucky."
So what will happen if ur hormone die away?.. U shld be alert enough tat before the hormone die away... to create new hormone.. always come up with new things to strengthen ur relationship.....make everyday just like the first day u started dating....the excitement..the sweetness...
Hope it helps.. for those ppl who are in love now... hopefully ur WILL is strong enough ba...
Short note: It's dead....presence does not matter anymore...